I’m a software engineer in my 30s, sharing the 20 hard truths I wish I knew in my 20s to avoid career burnout.
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I’m a software engineer in my 30s, sharing the 20 hard truths I wish I knew in my 20s to avoid career burnout.

Publish Date: Jun 26
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“Your 20s are for compounding skills, reputation, and commits; the kind that won’t make you hate your future self.”

If you’re in your 20s, things are changing faster than a git push --force after a 3-day debugging session. You've got AI, new languages, cloud computing, and clean code on your side but you've also got to keep up with Vibe Code and MCP servers. It's a different ballgame than what we had.

The game’s different. And if you don’t adapt, you’ll get left behind. Dev burnout is real, career regret is expensive, and your stack won’t save you if you’re stuck at level 1 forever (sad truth).

Here’s a no-BS, dev-to-dev list of what actually moves the needle for a solid career, fair pay, and some peace of mind. This is the advice I’d give my younger self, coming from someone who’s worked in Big Tech, startups, and projects that never should’ve seen the light of day. The truth? AI is just another tool, learn how to use it, or it’ll use you.

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By the way, I’m not a listicle fan, but I’m doing this for you to make it easier to digest. I hope you’ll find it useful.

1. Vibe code is the future

No, it’s not about writing code while vibing to your favorite tunes. It’s about creating smooth, intuitive code that flows with the user experience and the app’s needs. AI-powered code will be your assistant, but you need to design the experience. Think of code like music, it should be functional, efficient, and resonate with the user.

2. MCP servers will still matter, but Serverless is the new black

Microservices are great, but MCP (Microservice Control Plane) will always have a place. But here’s the thing, serverless is eating the world. With serverless platforms like AWS Lambda and Azure Functions, you can deploy code without worrying about infrastructure. Embrace it.

A survey by Stack Overflow showed that serverless computing is growing fast, and 75% of devs believe it will dominate the future of cloud development.

3. AI isn’t just for data scientists; it’s your new pair programming partner

Whether you’re a frontend dev or a backend master, AI tools like GitHub Copilot and ChatGPT are here to stay. Don’t fear them. Learn to use AI as a co-pilot automating the grunt work and letting you focus on solving real problems. AI in coding is like having a mentor who knows all the best practices.

In Black Mirror’s episode “Hated in the Nation,” AI is used to manipulate opinions. It shows the power and danger of unchecked AI. Don’t get caught up in hype or lazy use; understand how AI can enhance your coding workflows and not replace creativity.

4. Master the new programming languages

Languages evolve. While Python and JavaScript are the mainstays, Rust, Kotlin, and Go are making waves in 2025 and beyond. Start learning Rust for its speed and memory safety. Dive into Kotlin for building Android apps. And get into Go for scalable web services.

A GitHub Octoverse survey showed Rust was voted the most loved language by developers in 2023. Time to hop on the bandwagon.

I have listed a bunch of new programming languages, you can save them for later.

5. Cloud computing isn’t optional, it’s your playground

The cloud is your new local machine. If you’re not using services like AWS, Google Cloud, or Azure for your projects, you’re already falling behind. It’s where your apps will run, scale, and evolve. Get comfy with Kubernetes and containers.

According to Gartner, 70% of enterprises will run their workloads on the cloud by 2025. This shift is inevitable, and cloud-native development is the future.

6. Coding laws are coming , stay ahead of regulations

Coding laws will shape the future of ethical development. The EU’s GDPR set a precedent, and more laws are on the way, focusing on data privacy, AI ethics, and sustainability. Understand how laws affect code deployment and ensure compliance early.

7. Clean code is not optional

Clean code isn’t just a buzzword. It’s a lifestyle. Write code that’s easy to read, maintain, and scale. Start using tools like Prettier, ESLint, and SonarQube to enforce best practices. And remember: Your future self will thank you for writing readable code today. Habits are important.

8. Bad code will hunt you down

Bad code is like debt , it catches up. As AI tools get more efficient, the worst thing you can do is cut corners. Build your systems correctly the first time; otherwise, you’ll pay the price in refactors later.

9. Obsidian isn’t just for notes, it’s a knowledge management tool for developers

Tools like Obsidian are vital for organizing your personal knowledge base. Whether it’s documenting code, storing dev tips, or writing down future ideas, Obsidian helps you build a second brain. This tool is crucial for long-term career growth.

But I have also had bad experiences with it, you can read more about them here in detail.

10. Think like a product manager

It’s not enough to be a coder. Start thinking like a product manager. Understand what users want, what problems need solving, and how to design features that actually add value. The best devs are those who own the product not just the code.

11. Familiarize yourself with serverless architecture

Serverless is taking over. AWS Lambda, Google Cloud Functions, and Azure Functions allow you to run code without provisioning servers. It’s more efficient, scalable, and cost-effective.

12. The future of DevOps is low code/no code

The world of DevOps is evolving to include low-code/no-code tools for rapid deployments and automation. As a developer, you’ll need to master both infrastructure as code (IaC) and the tools that enable rapid prototyping.

13. Get comfortable with CI/CD

Continuous Integration (CI) and Continuous Deployment (CD) aren’t just for big companies. As the tech world gets faster, automating your pipeline will help you deploy faster, reduce errors, and increase collaboration.

Here is a practical breakdown of how CI/CD works in 2025.

14. Understand the business value of your code

Code isn’t just lines and functions it’s a business asset. Make sure you’re thinking beyond the technical side and asking: “How does this help the company? How does it generate value?” You’ll stand out as someone who thinks about both sides of the equation.

15. Embrace the open-source movement

Open source isn’t just for side projects. Contributing to open-source communities on GitHub or GitLab builds your reputation and expands your network. Plus, it’s a great way to learn from others and push boundaries.

16. AI will transform your stack, not replace it

AI tools won’t replace your job, but they will change how you work. From automating testing to code suggestions, it’s important to leverage AI as an augmentation tool.

Stack Overflow’s Developer Survey shows that 30% of devs are using AI tools in their workflow already. It also means that 70% are still not. So, those who don’t use AI tools will fall behind.

17. Focus on problem-solving, not just frameworks

It’s easy to get lost in the buzz of the latest framework or library, but the real value lies in how well you solve complex problems. Focus on building solutions, not just learning tools.

18. Learn security from day one

In the future, security won’t be optional. Start thinking about secure coding practices, authentication, and data protection from day one. It’ll set you apart as a well-rounded developer.

19. Focus on your mental health and well-being

Tech can be draining, especially in a rapidly evolving environment. Take time for mental health, find your work-life balance, and make sure you’re setting boundaries to avoid burnout. Developers who sustain their careers long-term are the ones who find balance early.

You can read about my own burnoutstory and how I recovered from it.

20. Learn to fail fast

Innovation is built on failure. Don’t be afraid to fail. The faster you fail, the faster you learn and iterate. Whether you’re working with AI or coding a new feature, embrace failure as a learning experience.

Final Thought:

AI is transforming the world of coding, but you remain the most valuable asset in the equation. Stay curious, keep learning, and always remember: it’s not just about coding. It’s about building a future-proof career.

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  • Dipak
    DipakJun 27, 2025

    Thanks for sharing 🙏

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