I've been thinking about this for a long time. I know that the process of creating a startup is difficult itself, and I also know that it is more difficult if you are a full time employee (I am currently in this phase).It is a complicated situation when you try to create a new business while you are a full-time employee, for some reason, such as time; If you do not dedicate time to your project, you will not be able to achieve your objectives or it will take you too long to achieve it.
So ... Here's my question: I'm currently a full-time employee, but I also have a personal project that I'm working on. I have read many articles by people who say why it is bad and why not, but I would like to have a more human perspective on what you think about this, and if you are / were in the same situation.
I'd avoid worrying about the terminology here: whether this is a side-business or a startup. Your project is going to go through phases, and at some point you'll have to make decisions on time allocation.
Creating a minimal viable product can often be done in your spare time (time not spent at your primary job). It will take a significant amount of that time, including vacation time. Some product ideas may require too muc investment (time/money) to produce an MVP in your spare time, but possibly a prototype, or just a proof of concept.
If you're uncertain what your initial goal is, MVP, prototype, or otherwise, I'd suggest keeping it a side-project until then.
At some point you'll recognize you're not making enough progress, then you need to decide if you invest in it full-time -- as the first step to getting investment and potentially hiring others. If you are intending to make a living form the product you need to make this switch at some point.
It's a hard decision, and you need to have budgetted and planned accordingly prior to leaving your main job.
Not all projects require a full-time investment, it depends a lot on your goals. A lot of software is essentially hobbyist software, where people still work a primary job. Others have managed to get a flexible main job and dedicate more time to their side-project. Some people ween themselves off their main job slowly, until they have a revenue stream in their new venture.
If this sounds like I'm just waving my hands about, it's because I am. Every person and project is different. If you are serious about your product, then take the time to create a vision and a plan. What time and money you need should not be a mystery: you can figure this out with planning.