"Who are you?" - a conversation with my therapist
Manuel Artero Anguita 🟨

Manuel Artero Anguita 🟨 @manuartero

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"Who are you?" - a conversation with my therapist

Publish Date: May 16 '23
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Today I've decided to share a personal reflection instead of my usual tech-related content.
I have real concerns regarding the possibility of losing my job to AI.

Recently, I had a therapy session. And I spoke to my therapist about these worries. Now, she's not a tech expert, but she totally understood where I was coming from and told me many of her other patients are going through the same thing.

She gave me some tips that I found helpful, so I thought I could pass them along in this post.

First off, she hit me with one of those philosophical questions: "Who are you?".

So, besides the degrees, the programming skills, we were talking to the point: "you're just a hard worker".
I've been able to balance college, part-time jobs, and programming internships. Then, I've been working for +10 years. Different jobs, different challenges. Different situations.

Then, she asked me, "Has your job remained exactly the same over the past 10 years?".

I get what she meant, even though what we're facing now seems like a bigger deal? But you know what? She has a point. Throughout my career, my job has always evolved, and I've had to adapt along the way.

Another important point she stressed was that we tend to fear the things we don't fully understand. In order to find peace, I should learn to embrace these new tools.
Thing is, I've already started incorporating some of these tools into my everyday workflow, but if that alone isn't sufficient to soothe my anxiety, maybe there are other strategies I may explore.

So there you have it; my therapy session insights.
Hope someone may find this useful?


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Comments 3 total

  • Alex Hales
    Alex HalesDec 12, 2023

    I appreciate you sharing your therapy insights. It's a reminder that personal growth and adaptability have always been part of our professional journeys, and embracing new tools might just be the key to overcoming anxieties about job security in the age of AI. Thanks for the thoughtful reflection!

  • Chris Levis
    Chris LevisNov 26, 2024

    Your reflection is both insightful and relatable, especially as AI continues to reshape industries. Therapy sessions like this seem to offer clarity during uncertain times. When facing stress from work or life changes, a relaxing massage can also help balance the mind and body. For a convenient and rejuvenating experience, services like 출장마사지 might provide the relief you need to refocus and adapt to evolving challenges.

  • Mohsin Majestic
    Mohsin MajesticJun 3, 2025

    That sounds like a powerful and introspective conversation—therapy often helps us discover parts of ourselves we didn’t know were there. If you're exploring similar questions for your child, check out this child therapy center in Zaragoza—they specialize in emotional development and support for young minds.

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