Let’s be honest: some of us don’t get shortcuts. No “tap on the shoulder” jobs, no family in tech, no one whispering tips into our DMs. We’re the ones who have to crawl through the mud, self-fund everything, and still show up smiling. That’s been my story — and I know I’m not the only one.

Nine months ago, I pivoted hard into tech. I come from data, insurance, and oil & gas, but decided I wanted something safer, scalable, and futureproof. I’ve earned 30+ tech certifications since November — all while dealing with health scares, losing sleep, and taking care of my cat (who deserves a medal).

Despite that? I’m still here. I’ve applied to hundreds of jobs. Been ghosted. Had my references interviewed — then ghosted. I’ve been told I’m “unqualified” for roles that match my résumé line-for-line. But I didn’t fold. And I won’t. Because I know what I bring.

This isn’t a sob story. It’s a reality check. A lot of folks think tech is “easy” now — a cert and a job. Not for all of us. Not if you’re underrepresented. Not if you’ve been historically left out of the referral loop. Not if you’re pivoting without a CS degree.

But if you’re out here doing it anyway? I see you. And I’m with you.