How do you stay sane with the non-stop tech hype (LLMs, anyone?)
Olga Braginskaya

Olga Braginskaya @olgabraginskaya

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How do you stay sane with the non-stop tech hype (LLMs, anyone?)

Publish Date: Jun 2 '25
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Every day it feels like there’s a new tool, a new framework or a new AI model that’s going to “change everything” - again.
Looks like if you’re not using six different vector databases and fine-tuning your own LLM by lunchtime, you’re missing out.
But seriously: how do people in tech keep their head straight through all this?
Do you follow the trends, pick your battles or just close your laptop and go touch grass?
Would love to hear how folks are filtering the noise and staying (at least somewhat) sane.

Comments 24 total

  • Shixian Sheng
    Shixian ShengJun 2, 2025
    1. Wait a few days and see if it's still a hype.
    2. Try it out yourself
  • Alex Iscanderov
    Alex IscanderovJun 2, 2025

    Every time another headline about a new framework, library, or model blows up my feed, it feels like that old rock 'n' roll tape starts playing again. I get into my beat-up Corvette, fire up the engine, and drive off into the sunset — and suddenly, the world slows down. All that hype? It’s like neon signs on a highway at night: bright, loud, and mostly meaningless.

  • Oscar
    OscarJun 2, 2025

    I just don't worry about it that much. The fact of the matter is that 99% of AI stuff is complete hype, and the 1% that isn't hype will inevitably make its way into my life/workflow. If it makes it that far, it's probably worth using.

    Plus, for the last few months, I've been working on a project that hasn't been done before (AFAIK), and consequently, AI is pretty useless. This is not a flex by the way -- I'm working on a BitTorrent library in Rust, and documentation for BitTorrent & the protocols it uses is mediocre at best. A lot of what I spend my time on is piecing together information from different repos and whatnot. Maybe I'll start using it a bit more when I get back into web dev.

  • James Derek Ingersoll
    James Derek IngersollJun 2, 2025

    now this post hit different. real, honest... and in a space flooded with noise, that is rare.

    The constant stream of new tools, frameworks, models... it’s very tiring (annoying really) and I say that as someone deep in the mix. but for real, whats helped me is just staying focused on what actually matters... building things with purpose. Not trying to keep up, not trend-chasing, but to creating systems that actually solve real world problems...

    I’ve built a private AI stack from the ground up... tools that think, adapt, and evolve. Real cognitive loops, real memory, real observability. No hype. I call it GhostOS, but its not so much the tech, rather the mindset behind it that keeps me sane. I dont chase drops , jus focus on designing things that last.

    Anyway, just wanted to say I see you. If you ever want support navigating this space.. tools, strategy, or just clarity... Hit me up and ill help you navigate the murky waters of AI. No pitch. No hidden agenda. Just you and me. ps. this is something i jus offer to anyone, I just respect how you came at this. It felt human.

    Stay grounded out here. Focus on you and yours, not the watered down bs.

    • poi5on
      poi5onJun 3, 2025

      You sir, are absolutely fucking awesome.

  • Mike Talbot ⭐
    Mike Talbot ⭐Jun 2, 2025

    I think try stuff from people who seem useful. Sometimes that's great, sometimes less so. I tried OpenAI Codex 1 - here's my github, please identify all the places I use hard coded strings and turn them into a resource file. 10 minutes later it says "success", here's a PR with 9 changes. Err.... What about the other 200k? Guess I'll wait for Codex 2.

  • Nathan Tarbert
    Nathan TarbertJun 2, 2025

    Hah, I'm constantly debating if I should even read about the new stuff or just zone out for my own peace.

  • Ben Halpern
    Ben HalpernJun 2, 2025

    It's okay to miss certain things as they come and go, without completely having your head in the sand.

    I cannot keep up with all the random tools, but I do keep an eye out for key things that make sense to look more into.

  • Ava Nichols
    Ava NicholsJun 2, 2025

    Who's out there staying sane?

  • Dotallio
    DotallioJun 2, 2025

    I timebox 'explore the new shiny thing' sessions each week, and ignore the rest unless it solves an actual problem for me. How do you decide what’s worth your time?

  • Cesar Aguirre
    Cesar AguirreJun 2, 2025

    For me, #1 is picking the right battles. After some years, we reach a point where we should find peace in what we choose to learn and to ignore.

    Other ideas:

    • Find one single source of "official" information. Maybe newsletters or YouTube channels
    • Prefer long-form content (hopefully vetted like books) over short-form content that builds on the hype
    • Invest in what has passed the test of time. What has already survived will outlive recent trends. We're still using SQL, jQuery, and reading about stoicism.
  • Parag Nandy Roy
    Parag Nandy RoyJun 2, 2025

    long-term value beats short-term hype....I try keeping this in mind

  • Nevo David
    Nevo DavidJun 3, 2025

    lol i feel that overload way too much, tbh half the time i just stop caring about the hype and try to figure out what actually matters - you reckon it ever slows down or should we just get better at ignoring it all?

  • Brad
    BradJun 3, 2025

    I define my own problems, I don't let other's define them for me. I let solutions come to me, or I explicitly go out and find them myself.

    If I find myself "getting sold to", I just ignore it. If I find something that might solve a problem I already know I have, I will pay attention.

    This advice goes for tech, and for life. Your attention span is a commodity that is being traded and dealt continually, budget it accordingly so "pay attention" to the right things at the right time.

    Everything else is not only a distraction, but not worth your most important commodity, time.

  • Wassim Soltani
    Wassim SoltaniJun 3, 2025

    Take it slow and learn at your own pace. It's not going anywhere. Only retain what you think will be important or useful. And try to play around with it!

    That's been my approach and it hasn't failed me so far.

  • Bit Wombat
    Bit WombatJun 3, 2025

    I plan my escape.

  • Gustavo Saidler
    Gustavo SaidlerJun 3, 2025

    I am struggling with this so much to the point that my mind goes racing with all the new possibilities... I'm starting a bunch of things, finishing 0 :(

  • Stanley Lalanne
    Stanley LalanneJun 3, 2025

    Find the area where you can be maximally impactful and go all in.
    Use AI to help you accelerate and forget all the extra hype.

  • Hossein Fani
    Hossein FaniJun 3, 2025

    They use fear factor to get attention. Search for "FOMO" and how to recognize and dismantle it. OpenAI did it and now all of them use it to reduce marketing costs and and create social hypes. Non of these prototyping tools does what you tell them, let alone the product release. Keep focused on your job and try to add these tools to your personal toolbox and don't think a highschool student will take your job anytime soon.

  • poi5on
    poi5onJun 3, 2025

    Oh man, I can't tell you how much I share your sentiment. It's fucking overwhelming and office stressful.

    Which makes me come up with weird fucking shit like this-- terrorist.me (WIP)

  • fiiv
    fiivJun 4, 2025

    I personally went back to a less noisy tech stack (Ruby on Rails). Helped a lot. When I was primarily in Javascript, this was much more an issue.

  • Parag Nandy Roy
    Parag Nandy RoyJun 4, 2025

    Totally feel this..

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