What gets you out of bed in the morning?
Ryland G

Ryland G @taillogs

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What gets you out of bed in the morning?

Publish Date: Jun 7 '19
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Some days, getting myself out of bed and started with the day is a challenge. Sometimes I'm stressed about work and getting out of bed signals a start to more stress. Some days I didn't sleep enough. Some days I just feel like crap. But I always end up getting out of bed.

Spending time with my dogs and my girlfriend are the two things I can look forward to every day. There's also more transient things, like a new project I'm excited about, or an event that's happening later in the day that I can't wait for.

On the especially hard days, I just remember all of the potentially great experiences I'm working towards. Even if a single day doesn't stand out or feel extraordinary, it's part of a bigger process that will result in long term happiness.

So my question is, what gets YOU out of bed in the morning?

Comments 26 total

  • Joe Attardi
    Joe AttardiJun 7, 2019

    Usually, my crying son :D

    • Ryland G
      Ryland GJun 7, 2019

      That's a great reason!

  • Vincent Grovestine
    Vincent GrovestineJun 7, 2019

    The knowledge that my three Chihuahuas have small bladders.

    • Ryland G
      Ryland GJun 7, 2019

      That's knowledge that probably had a high price to learn.

      • Vincent Grovestine
        Vincent GrovestineJun 7, 2019

        I'm thankful for vinyl floors and pee pads. :)

        • Ryland G
          Ryland GJun 7, 2019

          My puppy is absolutely great about going to the bathroom, but our 15 year old isn't as reliable. Don't get confused, her bladder is just as good as it was, she's just spiteful now. She'll make herself take a shit right in front of me, just because I didn't do what she wanted.

          I have carpet....

  • Ryland G
    Ryland GJun 7, 2019

    But how often are you actually late?

  • Ryland G
    Ryland GJun 7, 2019

    Worry a little less then :)

    • Scott Bamforth
      Scott BamforthJun 8, 2019

      This is me all over. Every morning I'm like, "better hurry up or i'll be late" and then arrive an hour before I start work.

  • Nina
    NinaJun 7, 2019

    My cat, honestly. She depends on me for love, life, and affection, and I can't give up or else she might be sad enough to die, we're very bonded.

    What happens when she eventually goes? I have no idea.

    • Ryland G
      Ryland GJun 9, 2019

      You could get another pet but something that will definitely outlive you. Have you considered a giant tortoise? Maybe an elephant or parrot?

    • Ryland G
      Ryland GJun 9, 2019

      That's some great feedback. Seriously good job.

  • Antonio Radovcic
    Antonio RadovcicJun 8, 2019

    Taking the son to daycare.

    • Ryland G
      Ryland GJun 9, 2019

      What about the weekends?

  • Ryland G
    Ryland GJun 9, 2019

    Definitely know that feeling.

  • Ryland G
    Ryland GJun 9, 2019

    I just think most people who aren't late and worry don't realize how little being late actually matters.

  • Ry
    RyJun 13, 2019

    How do you or do you practice gratitude daily?

    • Ryland G
      Ryland GJun 13, 2019

      Hi fellow Ry.

      That's a great question. I can answer here, but I think it's such a great question that you should post it as a standalone topic (I'll comment on that if you do). If not, I'll respond directly.

      • Ry
        RyJun 13, 2019

        Thanks, I will post it.
        New to the community and still figuring it out

        • Ryland G
          Ryland GJun 13, 2019

          Just let me know when you do.

          • Ry
            RyJun 14, 2019

            Posted.

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