When you think of a web developer, what comes to your mind? Most people from my private life outside technology would describe such human as a man, often wearing glasses, hunched over a laptop in a dimly lit room, surrounded by empty coffee cups and energy drink cans. Maybe he’s an introvert, someone who’s more comfortable with code than with people, lacking in social skills and physical fitness. This stereotype is so ingrained in our collective consciousness that anyone who doesn’t fit this mold might be met with surprise, or even skepticism.

“But you don’t look like a web developer.”

This phrase is something I hear almost every time I introduce myself as a web developer (sometimes even in the STEM environment, but mostly in private life). You see, I am a web developer, but I don’t fit the outdated stereotype. I’m a woman, nearly 30 years old, in good shape, and I like sports. I take pride in my appearance, use make up, get my nails done, and care for myself because I want to be attractive. Yet, my abilities and passion for web development are no less than anyone else’s.

The image of the "ideal" web developer is not just a harmless stereotype; it’s a narrow definition that excludes the vast diversity within the tech community. The reality is that web developers come from all walks of life. They are men and women, young and old, extroverts and introverts, athletes and artists. Our skills and passions shouldn't be measured by our appearance or lifestyle choices, yet they still do.

In fact, diversity in web development brings about a richer and more creative environment. Different perspectives lead to innovative solutions and more user-friendly products. When we cling to outdated stereotypes, we not only limit our view but also discourage many talented individuals who might feel they don’t belong.

For me, being a web developer is about problem-solving, creativity, and continuous learning. It’s about staying curious and pushing the boundaries of what technology can do. It doesn’t require me to sacrifice my social life, neglect my physical health, or conform to an image that doesn’t represent who I am.

I want to challenge the notion of what a web developer should look like. Next time you meet someone in tech, resist the urge to judge their capabilities based on their appearance. Instead, focus on their skills, passion, and the unique perspective they bring to the table.

In a world where technology is constantly evolving, so too should our understanding of those who create it. Let’s embrace the diversity within our community and move beyond the stereotypes. After all, it’s not about how we look, but what we can build together.